Who wants to be played with? Not many people. In fact, I think it’s safe to say that no one wants to be played in a relationship. It’s not like dating is a game, after all. If you want to get serious with someone, you should stay away from guys who only want to keep things light between you two.
You can always keep an eye out for a few signs. Stay reading until the end to find out what these signs mean.
He still has dating apps on his phone.
He is still thinking about what he can do. He wants to make sure that he still has other types of dates he can choose from. Which is why he hasn’t really gotten rid of his dating apps yet. He’s still eager to find out what’s out there.
You don’t talk about the future with him.
It doesn’t look like he wants to talk to you about the future. It doesn’t look like he’s ready to take your relationship to the next level. He’s happy with things staying the same. He just goes with the flow, and your relationship doesn’t really have any structure or direction.
He often leaves without telling you.
He doesn’t seem to want you to feel like you’re a part of his life. For some reason, you seem to be left out in the cold. He doesn’t ask you to go somewhere. You don’t go with him when he meets his friends. Like he doesn’t mind if the two of you live separate lives from each other.
His name is linked to being a f*ckboy.
Rumours about a man can sometimes tell you a lot about him. Of course, everyone can change at some point. Also, you should always let people have a chance. That being said, if his personality fits his reputation, that is a huge red flag.
He talks to other girls behind you.
It’s fine for him to flirt with other girls in front of you. Because he flirts with other girls, he doesn’t really care that it makes you feel bad. He only cares about himself. Also, he will only want to do what makes him happy, no matter how it makes you feel.
He doesn’t say what kind of relationship you have with him.
He always avoids the subject when you try to talk about your relationship with him. Either he will give you an answer that isn’t clear at all, or he will change the subject completely. He probably won’t want to make things official between you two.
He doesn’t like having his picture taken with you.
He doesn’t want to use your picture. He doesn’t want you to think that you and him are dating or that you have something official going on. You could be scared that you’ll post pictures of you two on social media, too.
He doesn’t follow you on social media.
He doesn’t really talk to you on social media. In fact, he acts like you don’t exist in that space for him. He’s not going to want to see you. He won’t want it to look like you two are doing anything special.
He only hangs out with you to hook up.
He doesn’t try very hard to hang out with you. He only wants to hook up with you when he does spend time with you, which doesn’t happen very often. There’s no real emotional link or bond that he wants to make with you. He’s only interested in hooking up.
He doesn’t do what he says he will do.
He almost never keeps the plans and commitments he makes with you. Leaving you feeling let down and hurt doesn’t bother him much. He doesn’t think it’s important to keep the promises he makes to you. He doesn’t mind when you have high dreams and then he lets you down.
There are girls all the time around him.
He still hangs out with women all the time. Some of his friends are women, but that’s not all. He constantly tries to make friends with women. He’s just making sure he has choices, which is why this is the case.
