1. Cut down on the physical closeness
For him, physical closeness, especially s3x, is important, and not giving him “physical treats” can help him focus on you. When you say “no” to those private times and show less interest, it can make a wall that he would want to break through.
2. Quit giving him gifts.
Men start to take you for granted when they get too used to something. Make him understand how important you are. Stop giving him things that you normally do. For now, don’t make his favourite meals, fix his shirts, or make coffee for him. What’s the point of working on something if no one really cares about it? Get some funny answers ready for when he asks “why,” and enjoy the way he reacts.
3. Come on over and flirt
He might get worried if you flirt with other guys in your group of friends, even if it’s just for fun. It will wake him up if he cares about you. He will see what he did wrong and start working harder to make the bond stronger. Do not go too far, though.
4. Not care about it
Set your phone to silent. You don’t have to reply to his texts right away with a bunch of emoticons. Wait to answer his calls and miss his video calls. Let him know that you can’t always be reached. He’ll probably wonder what’s wrong if he’s smart enough.
5. Don’t worry.
Do not give him any weight. Do not show him that you care. Hold yourself back if you ask him about his thoughts or what he did during the day all the time. Do not question him about why he is sad. Act like you don’t care about anything. Don’t go to dinner with him if you wait for that time. Tell him you’ve already eaten.
6. Change a few things about who you are
He will definitely notice these changes. Your confidence will grow as you see how much you’ve changed. He’ll know that everyone is looking at you, which will make him more afraid of losing you.
7. Don’t rule anything out.
Don’t make your man think that you are crazy about him. Do not commit to the relationship yet. If you are still trying it, let him know that he might lose you if he doesn’t change.
